A Girl is like a Bird,
God’s most prettiest creation in the world.The childhood of girl is their golden age,
After that the world keeps them into a beautiful cage.Looks like a fairy,
Who loses her feather when she marry.She leads all her life in serving others,
She also has a heart but none bothers.A dress of happiness and pleasure she wears,
but in corner you find a girl shedding tears.
Category: Life
God makes the coffee, man chooses the cups. The happiest people don’t have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything
A group of alumni, highly established in their careers, were talking at a reunion and decided to go visit their old university professor, now retired. During their visit the conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in their work and lives. Offering his guests coffee, the professor went to the kitchen and returned with a large pot of coffee and an assortment of cups – porcelain, plastic, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite – telling them to help themselves to the coffee.
When all the alumni had a cup of coffee in hand, the Professor said: “Notice that all the nice looking; expensive cups were taken up, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress. Be assured that the cup itself adds no quality to the coffee. In most cases it is just more expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink. What all of you really wanted was coffee, not the cup but you consciously went for the best cups … and then you began eyeing each other’s cups.
Now consider this: Life is the coffee; your job, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain Life. The type of cup one has does not define, nor change the quality of life a person lives. Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee God has provided us “God makes the coffee, man chooses the cups. The happiest people don’t have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything”.
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly.
Enjoy your coffee.
If You Carry Your Problems on Your Head,
Their Weight Will Crush Youbut
If You Put Them Under Your Feet,
They Will Serve Like Stairs.
I Would Conquer The Whole World With Just One Hand,
If You are Holding The Ohter … !!!
The difference between school and life?
In school, you’re taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you’re given a test that teaches you a lesson. .!!
This is the coolest day of month of June, Temperature is around 28 Degree. I was trying to complete my office work as soon as possible so that I will manage to leave on time and enjoy the weather. I have a great plan for this evening. I have decided to bring Samosa’s and make Mango Shake. Finally its 5:30 PM IST and my work were almost finished. I called Himanshu (my lead).
Me: Hey Himanshu, Its 5:30 and I have already finished my today’s tasks. I am leaving for the day now.
Himanshu: Dost, wait for few minutes, I am also planning to leave in next 10 to 15 minutes.
Me: Ok, no worries.
6:00 PM IST, we left the office and coming out from the team area. What luck, Lift was ready. We caught the lift and started our journey. As soon as we come out from the office building, we saw the parking shuttle were ready to move. We caught the shuttle. It took hardly 5 minutes to reach parking area.
Me: Himanshu, it’s a pleasant weather today, do you have any special plan?
Himanshu: Yaah, some of my friends will join me soon. I will have a great evening.
Me: Cool, I am planning to bring something special to eat.
Here we reach the parking area. Soon we were in the Himanshu’s car. He started the car. My house is hardly 500 meter away from parking area.
6:15 PM IST,
Me: Thank you Himanshu for the lift. Have a nice evening. See you tomorrow in office.
Himanshu: Bye Mohit. Enjoy
I have started walking towards my room, its not a posh area but still it’s a good area to live. We are 4 friends living in a 2BHK flat. We know each other since last 9 years. All of us are from Muzaffar-Nagar city. Vinay just got married and now enjoying his honeymoon. Tarun is already engaged and spent 40% of his time on phone. Deepanshu and I are still single.
Ok, I have reached my room. Generally Tarun used to come by 6 PM, but today room is lock. Might be he got stuck in some office work. I take out the key from my pocket, hook it into the lock, and turn it. What happen? Uff it’s not opening the lock. OMG, seems like I have the wrong key. Holy shit, by mistake I pick the wrong key in morning. Now what should I do? Number of ideas started running in my mind. Ok, lets call Tarun and ask when we will be in
Dialing … ohh seems like my mobile’s battery is low, what the hell, but I have to call him.
Me: Hey Tarun, where are you buddy?
Tarun: I am in office.
Me: Ok, whats your plan? By what time you will reach here?
Tarun: I will reach there by 8 PM. Currently busy in some work. What happen?
Me: I am in big trouble. I have reached here but don’t have the key. Is it possible for you to come early?
Tarun: Sorry yaar, not possible, but I will try, mean while why don’t you call Deepanshu and ask him to come early.
Me: Yaah, will do that. Thanks.
Now Deepanshu is the only hope, dialing …
Me: Where are you friend? Is it possible for you to come early? I am standing outside the room but don’t have the key.
Deepanshu: Ohh, I am sorry friend, its not possible for me. I will take atleast one hour. I have some important work to finish before leaving. Why don’t you call Tarun?
Me: I have already called him, but he is also busy.
Deepanshu: Ok, I will try to leave office by 7 PM. I will reach there by 7:15 PM.
Me: Ok, I will wait then. Thanks buddy.
Ok, so its 6:30 PM, and I am damn hungry, so I have decided to go out and have something. I have many options …
How about “Samosa?” It was in my plan… Noo, I will enjoy samosa with Milk shake only.
“Chole Bhatore?”, sounds a good option. Lets go.
I am at the sweet shop, Friend make a plate of chole bhatore for me. What? You don’t have L Uff, its too much for today! “But picture baki hai mere dost”, ok give me one cold drink. How much I have to pay?
Shopkeeper: Rs. 20 only
Ok, I checked my wallet, another surprise were waiting for me here, i have started counting money… 10 , 15 … 17
Sorry friend, I don’t have enough money, I will buy it some other time. Thank you
I left the shop, but I am still hungry and also i have to complete 40 more minutes. I saw a bhoota wala, the weather is cool, and so it’s a fun to eat bhoota.
Me: Bhiya, what is the cost of this?
Bhoota wala: Rs. 10 only.
Me: Ok, make one for me.
He makes one and handed to me, I pay the money and started walking. Now I am again standing in front of my room. It’s hard to wait. Let’s go up stairs. I start walking. I am eating bhoota and walking. I have less battery in my mobile and don’t want to waste it. So i can’t call any one. I can’t listen music. I am just walking.
7:15 PM
Finally its 7:15 PM and I have no idea where Deepanshu is. I should call him. Dialing …
Me: Where are you friend?
Deepanshu: I am just wrapping up. I will reach there in next 10 minutes.
Me: Ok, I am waiting for you. Listen, I am up stairs, so call me from there. My Mobile battery is also down.
Deepanshu: Ok.
I started walking again. 10 more minutes and I will be in my room. I have to write another blog on Fatwire caching today. (I started thinking what I will do…).
7:40 PM, I am still waiting for Deepanshu …, ohh just remembered, its time for our cook to come. Let’s go down stairs and wait for Cook and Deepanshu. Again I am standing outside my room and again I am waiting …
7:50 PM …
8:00 PM … I am still waiting
8:15 PM, I saw Tarun is coming. I have a sweet smile on my face. Thank you GOD
Vidhya: hey! what is the matter you have called up all of a sudden?Nithya : do u remember that my parents gave my horoscope, to search for a suitable match, to many people? So many horoscopes of the groom has come.. in that 4-5 seems to match.. I don’t know which one to select, I am confused because of it.
Vidhya: what is the confusion about?
Nithya: horoscopes of many software engineers have come. It seems now a days, the software guys are wanting to marry girls in the other field. That’s I why I don’t know whom I must select among this. You are a software engineer na pls give me some suggestion .
vidhya: not a problem at all. So tell me the position that each one holds.
nithya: first is a manager.
vidhya: manager?? Then he will showcast himself that he is busy always. But he will not do anything properly. He will get u 1 kg of rice and ask you to prepare for the whole area say a village. He will get you mutton and ask you to prepare chicken 65. Even if you protest telling you can’t make it, he’ll not accept. He will tell you to work hard day and night to prepare it. He will also tell he’ll provide you with the night cab. Even if you ask how can I prepare chicken 65 out of it by sitting day and night he will not accept.
Nithya: ohh..so dangerous he is!! Then I must escape. Next is a tester.
vidhya: he is more dangerous than the other person. Whatever you do he will correctly tell only the fault in it. Even if you try to surprise him with 10 variety of food, he will tell the item which does not have salt in it. If you ask him “will you not at least tell that it is good”, he will reply back saying it is your duty to make it good so why must I tell that. He is sooo good.
Nithya: then a NO to him also. Next is the performance test engineer.
vidhya: he is another specimen.. even if everything is good, he will ask why did it take this much time. If you take 10 minutes to make a coffee, he will question you asking why you have taken 10 min for a coffee which can be done within 5 min. Even if you say that he is talking about the instant coffee while you have made the filter coffee, he will not accept. The same will be with all the work you do. You must not think about this person if you want to do make up in your life !!!
Nithya: then! you mean to say that we should not marry software guys??
Vidhya: who said like that?? In software there is one more group. They are called the developers group. How much ever you hit them they will bear.
Nithya: then tell about them.
Vidhya: you don’t have to do anything. They will do everything themselves. If we sit back and just boost them it is enough. But the problem with them is- they will say “I know it” whatever you ask them. Even that is ok. They will bear how much ever you hit them but the condition is you must keep saying “you are too good” after hitting them every time.
Nithya: this is superb. Then we must search for this kind of a groom….
